About Me


You’re wondering how I’m qualified to coach you through a breakup or a divorce.  I get it.  I don’t take advice from just anyone.  Particularly strangers.  And really particularly strangers on the Internet.

Who am I?  I’m a middle-aged, badass broad with 3 ex-husbands, even more ex-lovers, and a string of employers in my wake.  Some of these breakups were my idea.  Some weren’t.  Some were quick. Some lingered.  Some were painful.  Some weren’t.

I’m also a litigation paralegal with over 30 years’ experience.  Some of the tactics and strategies I will share with you come straight from my personal experiences.  Others come from my career experiences and my contact with numerous private investigators, lawyers, therapists, etc.

I’ve coached people through breakups of all sorts.  What I know is that your success depends on how committed you are to getting over it and getting over it as quickly as YOU can.  Not as quickly as I can or as quickly as your best friend can or as quickly as your ex can.  As quickly as YOU can.

Your success in moving forward with your life has nothing to do with anyone else, including me. How your life goes from here is all on you.

I’ll coach you through it and have your back the whole way.  But your life and your choices are on you.

Just know that others have been where you are, and they managed to thrive through the experience. I’m not saying that it’s possible to thrive every second of every day while you’re walking this path. But you can thrive through it the majority of the time. You just need a little help.  That’s where I come in!

Learn from my successes, my mistakes, my flashes of brilliance, and, my occasional descent into complete and total stupidity.  (Yes, even I drunk texted my ex one night! Not proud of that one either! But I lived through it!)

Begin today to craft the rest of your life in the fashion that YOU desire.  Seriously!  Let’s get started Getting Over It!


*Before you embark on this journey – particularly if you are married and are breaking up from your legal spouse – you should consult an attorney licensed in the state where you live. I am not responsible for any consequences, legal or otherwise, that befall you for your actions in taking the advice offered on this site.  I am not an attorney and I do not give legal advice.  Ever.  You are responsible for learning the laws of the State where you reside regarding surveillance, divorce, tracking, recording, and any other methods which are discussed on this Blog.

I do not sell nor do I have a financial interest in any equipment or software recommended on this Blog.  It is your responsibility to ascertain and obey all applicable local, state and federal laws in regard to possession and use of any items listed on this web site. Consult an attorney or law enforcement professional, regarding local, state and federal laws before ordering.  IT IS YOUR SOLE RESPONSIBILITY TO CONSULT LEGAL COUNSEL FOR THE INTERPRETATION OF ANY LAWS APPLICABLE TO THE AREA OF INTENDED USE OF ANY PRODUCTS.